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Raksha
Bandhan is an unspoken pledge exchanged
between a brother and sister cementing their
fraternal relationship. This also reinforces
their protective bond against all ills and
odds. Raksha Bandhan is celebrated on the
day of Shravan Poornima that falls in the
month of August every year. On this very
day, the sisters tie a delicate, sometimes
decorated, thread on the wrist of their
brothers as a symbol of love and affection.
This makes the brothers bound to protect
their sisters from any trouble or wound. The
chanting of a holy mantra by the sisters
while tying the thread says, "I am tying a
Raksha to you, similar to the one tied to
Bali, the powerful king of the demons. Oh
Raksha, be firm, do not waver". The mantra
recalls how the demon king Bali had become
very powerful with the Rakhi on. The power
of the mantra is supposed to protect the
wearer from evil influences. This shows how
dependent and secure a sister feels when she
has a brother. Tying this Rakhi or Raksha
signifies the re-strengthening of the bond
between the siblings of opposite sexes.
Raksha Bandhan is the most awaited festival
of the year for every girl. It is celebrated
in the month of August on the full-moon day
known as the Shravan Poornima in India. The
celebration of this festival is followed
according to the Indian calendar, hence the
month in the English calendar varies every
year.
Celebrations
The brothers get special attention on Raksha
Bandhan day. The entire day is fun filled
and full of happiness. The homes are cleaned
and the sisters, taking an early bath, wait
for their brothers to get ready to let their
sisters tie the holy thread of Rakhi. The
brothers also present their sisters with
gifts after she ties the Rakhi on her dear
brother's wrist.
Rituals
Raksha Bandhan day starts with a festive
mood in every Indian home. Rakhis are made
or bought a day before the festival.
Traditional goodies and dishes are prepared
early in the morning. After an early bath,
the offering Puja (worshipping of god) takes
place. The sister then offers "aarti" (a
traditional way of worshipping) to her
brother and ties the thread on his right
wrist. Traditional "tilak" or vermilion
powder on the forehead of the brother is put
and the brother blesses the sister. The
tradition of giving gifts and presents is
also an important part of this festival. The
brother gifts his sister a gift after she
ties the Rakhi on his wrist. This gift acts
as a token of love and affection of the
brother towards the sister. Sometimes
sisters also demand for a gift of their own
choice to keep it as a loving memory of that
very day. Nevertheless, giving gifts is not
a must tradition. The blessing bestowed by
the brother itself is regarded as the
biggest gift for the sisters. Treating her
brother along with her entire family, with
the goodies and eatables that has been
prepared follows next. Thus, the normal
rituals are followed with great devotion and
dedication. The Rakhi celebration differs
from region to region.
There are many legends that signify the
importance of Rakhi in India. Touching tales
of women seeking protection from heroes of
the contemporary period, via the Raksha,
abound in the country.
Legend goes that once Indra, the Pauranic
King of the Heavens, while warring with the
Daitya-Raaja (demon king) was confronted
with reverses. Humbled, he sought the advice
of Brihaspati, the Guru. On the auspicious
occasion of Shravan Poornima, both Shachee
Devi or Indrani, the consort of Indra and
Brihaspati, the Guru of the Gods, tied
silken amulets popularly known as Raksha on
Indra's wrist. Subsequently, Indra
vanquished the Daitya-Raaja and
reestablished sovereignty over his celestial
abode.
It is said that at one time, Alexander's
wife approached the mighty Hindu adversary,
Pururaja and sought assurance of her
husband's life by tying the Rakhi on
Pururaja's hand. The story goes that just as
Pururaja raised his hand to deliver a mortal
blow to Alexander, he saw the Raksha and
refrained from striking.
In yet another poignant instance, a Rajput
princess sent a Rakhi to the Mughal Emperor
Humayun, enlisting his support against the
onslaught of the Gujarat Sultan. Though
engaged elsewhere, Humayun hastened to the
rescue of his Rakhi sister but to his bitter
disappointment found that the kingdom had
been seized and the princess had committed "jauhar"
to save her honor.
Regional Celebrations
India shows its unity among diversity in
celebrating Raksha Bandhan too. Rakhi is
mostly celebrated in the northern part of
India. The celebration of Raksha Bandhan is
more or less the same in this region.
However, the other parts of India celebrate
this festival in various other ways. The
rituals and customs followed differ with
region to region.
The festival of Raksha Bandhan is also known
as Narial Poornima or Coconut Full-Moon Day
in Mumbai's famous beaches. Coconuts are
thrown into the sea to propitiate the
Sea-God, Varuna, who is the chief object of
worship on this occasion. The 'three eyes'
of the coconut are believed to represent the
three-eyed Shiva and hence the religious
significance. In fact, Hindus consider it
auspicious to break a coconut in front of a
deity before embarking upon any important
venture.
A similar practice is carried in some other
places in order to offer Puja to the god of
rain and water, Lord Varuna.
This festival is called Avani Avittam in
South India. This is the time of "Upakarmam,"
and is celebrated in various ways. This
falls on the full-moon day of the month of
Shravan (August-September). It is an
important Hindu festival. On this particular
day, Hindu Brahmins wear a new holy thread
and offer libations of water to the ancient
Rishis. The day is also set apart for
Brahmins to change their sacred thread they
wear.
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